A Surprising Perspective About Resolutions
I was working out at the gym with a friend and knowing it was January, we chuckled as we noticed how much more crowded the gym was since January 1st. Then as it happens every year, about four to six weeks later, the gym returns to its normal level—and we wouldn’t have to wait in line to use the weight machines.
Yes, the New Year resolutions for buffing up the body and becoming healthy would last a short time for most people. Great motivation to start but not much to continue. Why is that? For many of us, it’s because we make our goals too high and become discouraged when we can’t meet them.
But there is a solution. It’s found in “The 1% Principle.” It’s the idea of setting small goals toward a bigger one and when we meet the small goal (1% instead of 75% or larger), we’ll be encouraged to continue.
Here are some ideas.
- Instead of “I will have a devotional time with God for one hour every day this week,” think: “I’m going to spend 5 minutes with God two times next week.”
- Instead of “I’m going to stop eating all sugar,” think: “I’m going to limit sugar to one item per day.”
- Instead of “I’m going to go to the gym every day this week,” think: “My goal is to go to the gym two times this week.”
- Instead of “I’m never going to get angry with my child again,” think: “Since dinner time is the hardest time to be patient, I’m going to concentrate on staying calm on Tuesday next week and ask a friend to pray for me during that time.”
Get the idea? Instead of thinking 100% toward a goal, start small and be encouraged as you reach it. Then you’ll continue to move toward the larger goal. (And by the way, it’s OK to do more than the 1% goal if you’re able).
Does this sound like a plan that God can’t applaud? After all, doesn’t He believe He can empower us to reach huge goals? Of course He can but He also understands that “we are but dust” (Psalm 103:14). That’s why He says, “Take pains with these things; be absorbed in them, so that your progress may be evident to all.” (1 Timothy 4:15 NASB). He doesn’t say, “so that your perfection may be evident to all.” He expects us to be in process little by little and is pleased with our progress—even 1% at a time.
I constantly am beating myself up for not praying more, for not doing this or that so thank you for reminding me that God understands my weakness and my heart.
Thank you, Kat, for commenting. I know there are more of us who do those very things than we know. It’s very common. So be encouraged you are not alone in this. We need to be reminded all the time. Happy New Year!