by Kathy Collard Miller | Aug 5, 2016 | assumptions, blame, communication, contentment, demands, encouragement, forgiveness, love, loving, marriage, unconditional love
Here is another post on the theme of “I’ll get him to the altar and then I’ll alter him.” This time, let’s look at the idea of “If you change, I won’t feel embarrassed.”If we think that, it’s because we believe...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Aug 2, 2016 | assumptions, marriage, people pleasing, perfection, relationships
I hope you are being blessed with our theme of “After I get him to the altar, I’ll alter him.” Today we’ll look at the manipulation myth: “If you change, we won’t have any problems.” Don’t laugh. I actually thought...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Jul 28, 2016 | assumptions, compassion, demands, love, loving, marriage, perseverance, prayer for others, pride, unconditional love
We are examining the theme of “When I get him to the altar, I’ll alter him.” Here’s manipulative myth #2:If you change, I can be assured you’ll never go back to your old habits. Tweet that!In all these myths, the motive is...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Jul 24, 2016 | assumptions, beliefs, contempt, contentment, intimacy, kindness, lies, love, marriage, relationships, unconditional love
Thank you to everyone who participated in the CAN Scavenger Hunt. I hope you had a wonderful time. I enjoyed meeting many new friends.And the winner of my drawing is…Drum Roll… Rhonda Gothier.Tomorrow/Monday, July 25th, the Grand Prize Winner of the Hunt...
by Kathy Collard Miller | May 21, 2016 | assumptions, family, first love, marriage, relationships, unconditional love
In my last posts, I’ve talked about our early marriage and our first vacation. I didn’t realize how much I didn’t know about a man. One of my faulty assumptions was that Larry thought like me and I could interpret his behavior based upon how I would...
by Kathy Collard Miller | May 17, 2016 | assumptions, contentment, marriage, position in Christ, risk, unconditional love
In my last post, I described Larry and my first vacation. I had high expectations of lots of attention. Larry had high expectations of driving in complete silence. I was crushed and he had no clue of my thoughts. Looking back, I wish I wouldn’t have assumed...
