by Kathy Collard Miller | Aug 29, 2016 | anger, communication, compassion, contempt, contentment, God's love, love, marriage, stress, unconditional love
We’re reviewing several ways that we can restore the love in our marriages and this fourth solution is understanding differences. I went into marriage thinking Larry valued everything I did and if he loved me he would be motivated to...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Aug 23, 2016 | communication, love, marriage, relationships, sexiness, unconditional love
No matter how many years you’ve been married, the third barrier to restoring love can affect you: boredom. It takes creativity and effort to restore your love by removing this obstacle.This can be especially true...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Aug 19, 2016 | anger, attitudes, blame, communication, compassion, God's love, love, marriage, relationships, unconditional love
We are talking about different ways to restore love in a marriage and displacement is the second way. Or I should say, recognizing displacement is the second way. When Larry and I were at odds, I didn’t realize this was...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Aug 16, 2016 | communication, God's love, love, marriage, relationships, unconditional love
Drum Roll… The winner of Erica’s Wiggenhorne’s book The Unexplainable Life is…Jeanne Doyon!!! Congratulations, Jeanne.Now, I’d like to begin a new series on restoring love in a marriage when we’ve “fallen out of...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Aug 5, 2016 | assumptions, blame, communication, contentment, demands, encouragement, forgiveness, love, loving, marriage, unconditional love
Here is another post on the theme of “I’ll get him to the altar and then I’ll alter him.” This time, let’s look at the idea of “If you change, I won’t feel embarrassed.”If we think that, it’s because we believe...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Jun 5, 2016 | anger, communication, friendships, marriage, relationships
One final female and male difference. Women want to help; men want to protect. Look at these two verbal exchanges. She: “What time do you want to leave for the church social?” He: “Don’t worry, you have time to cook the casserole.” He:...