by Kathy Collard Miller | Jun 18, 2017 | anger, anxiety, assumptions, belief, beliefs, blame, compliments, contempt, contentment, fear of man, motives, people pleasing, perfect, perfection, perfectionism
Have you noticed how often we can say something like, “I don’t want to make her feel … sad…angry…left out…upset…” The possibilities are endless. As a result, we become very careful and try to figure out how to avoid...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Oct 9, 2015 | beliefs, blame, faith, fear, fear of man, forgiveness, God's love, godly sorrow, longing for God, position in Christ, surrender, values, work, worry
DRUM ROLL!!! The winner of the drawing for my book, Never Ever Be the Same is … (wait for it!)…Mona! Thanks so much for putting your name in the drawing, Mona. God bless you! Please send your mailing address to me: KathyCollardMiller AT gmail DOT com. As...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Aug 13, 2015 | blessings, book review, caring, faith, fear of man, forgiveness, grace, love, peace, unconditional love
I don’t think any of us can hear or learn enough about grace–and how we can have our hearts and minds transformed by understanding the enormity of it’s value as an amazing gift from God.That’s why I’m so excited about a new book called...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Jul 10, 2015 | faith, fear of man, people pleasing, self talk, self-protective sinful strategies
In our book Never Ever Be the Same, Larry and I talk about a concept we call, “The Railroad Tracks Syndrome.” We see this occurring both in ourselves and in the people we give soul care/counseling to. For instance, I say I trust God (one of the RR track...
by Kathy Collard Miller | May 28, 2015 | beliefs, faith, fear of man, motives, relationships, self-protective sinful strategies, stress, Trust
Can you relate when I say I’m good at being hyper-vigilant? Wikipedia defines hyper-vigilance as, “an enhanced state of sensory sensitivity accompanied by an exaggerated intensity of behaviors whose purpose is to detect threats.” The hyper-vigilant person...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Dec 13, 2014 | Christmas, courage, faith, faithfulness, fear of man, glory to God, hope, lies, surrender, Trust
You may be reading the Christmas story again this season, but have you stopped to think about God’s definition of “favor”? Let’s review.The angel arrives in front of Mary and proclaims,”Greetings, favored one! The LORD is with...
