by Kathy Collard Miller | Aug 5, 2016 | assumptions, blame, communication, contentment, demands, encouragement, forgiveness, love, loving, marriage, unconditional love
Here is another post on the theme of “I’ll get him to the altar and then I’ll alter him.” This time, let’s look at the idea of “If you change, I won’t feel embarrassed.”If we think that, it’s because we believe...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Aug 2, 2016 | assumptions, marriage, people pleasing, perfection, relationships
I hope you are being blessed with our theme of “After I get him to the altar, I’ll alter him.” Today we’ll look at the manipulation myth: “If you change, we won’t have any problems.” Don’t laugh. I actually thought...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Jul 28, 2016 | assumptions, compassion, demands, love, loving, marriage, perseverance, prayer for others, pride, unconditional love
We are examining the theme of “When I get him to the altar, I’ll alter him.” Here’s manipulative myth #2:If you change, I can be assured you’ll never go back to your old habits. Tweet that!In all these myths, the motive is...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Jul 24, 2016 | assumptions, beliefs, contempt, contentment, intimacy, kindness, lies, love, marriage, relationships, unconditional love
Thank you to everyone who participated in the CAN Scavenger Hunt. I hope you had a wonderful time. I enjoyed meeting many new friends.And the winner of my drawing is…Drum Roll… Rhonda Gothier.Tomorrow/Monday, July 25th, the Grand Prize Winner of the Hunt...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Jun 15, 2016 | anger, blame, book review, marriage, recommended reading, relationships, resolutions, temptation
I’m so pleased to recommend and offer a drawing for the new book by Deb and Ron DeArmond called Don’t Go To Bed Angry; Stay Up and Fight. Isn’t that a fascinating title? Here’s an interview with Deb and Ron. And be sure to check at...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Jun 5, 2016 | anger, communication, friendships, marriage, relationships
One final female and male difference. Women want to help; men want to protect. Look at these two verbal exchanges. She: “What time do you want to leave for the church social?” He: “Don’t worry, you have time to cook the casserole.” He:...
