by Kathy Collard Miller | May 26, 2016 | contentment, grace, marriage, motives, people pleasing, perfectionism, unconditional love
In my last post, I noted some of the differences between men and women (generally speaking) is that women love the process. One of the ways she may “process” is through “dreaming of possibilities.” Here’s an example of a conversation that...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Nov 27, 2015 | anger, beliefs, book review, friendships, knowing and understanding God, marriage, motives, obedience, overwhelmed feelings, relationships
I’m very excited to invite you to put your name into a drawing to win 7 Simple Skills for Every Woman: Success in Keeping Everything Together by Pam Farrel (Tweet that!) Every woman should have this book and I’m so glad I can offer a copy to the...
by Kathy Collard Miller | May 28, 2015 | beliefs, faith, fear of man, motives, relationships, self-protective sinful strategies, stress, Trust
Can you relate when I say I’m good at being hyper-vigilant? Wikipedia defines hyper-vigilance as, “an enhanced state of sensory sensitivity accompanied by an exaggerated intensity of behaviors whose purpose is to detect threats.” The hyper-vigilant person...
by Kathy Collard Miller | May 14, 2015 | faith, God's heart, guilt, heart change, motives, sanctification, Trust
You have an iceberg in your heart! Did you know that? This photo represents one of the primary foundational premises of our book, Never Ever Be The Same: A New You Starts Today. What is above the waterline, what you see in a real iceberg, represents how we...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Jan 1, 2015 | beliefs, heart change, holiness, motives, Never Ever Be the Same, obedience
Have you ever wondered why resolutions don’t work? I have a theory. It’s because resolutions most often require more “white-knuckling” it instead of changing the desires motivating the behavior we want to change. Our new book...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Nov 12, 2014 | abuse, anger, attitudes, blame, contempt, marriage, motives, relationships, sin
Do you live with an angry person? Or do you know an angry person whom you must have lots of contact with? It can be a very hard place to be. Do you feel like you’re walking on eggshells afraid of the next angry outburst or their hardened heart of silence? I was...