by Kathy Collard Miller | Dec 20, 2016 | Christmas, contentment, Never Ever Be the Same, people pleasing, perfect, perfectionism, position in Christ, stress
I mentioned in my last post that I’d continue the discussion of perfectionism. So now let’s look at one of the results of perfectionism which is People Pleasing. I confess! I’m a People Pleaser! I’m motivated to please others for a variety of reasons and...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Sep 23, 2016 | anxiety, beliefs, blame, contempt, demands, heart change, holiness, Lewy Body Dementia, Never Ever Be the Same, perfection, perfectionism, temptations
I have long struggled with criticizing myself because my efforts and time spent feel like I’m never doing enough. I compare myself to other mothers, wives, writers, and speakers. I think, “Look at all they are doing and I’m not.” As a recovering perfectionist, if I...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Jan 23, 2015 | Never Ever Be the Same, relationships, self talk, self-protective sinful strategies, sin
DRUM Roll…The winner of the book Give-away for Fur Elise, is….Sherry Martin. Sherry, please contact me at Kathyspeak AT aol DOT com with your mailing address. You get to read Peggy Sue Wells’s wonderful book. When we respond to people and...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Jan 4, 2015 | beliefs, deception, encouragement, God's heart, heart change, joy, lies, Never Ever Be the Same, obedience, self talk, self-protective sinful strategies, sin
Would you like to respond to circumstances and people in a more loving and godly way? That is the goal of our new book Never Ever Be the Same: A New You Starts Today. Plus, we desire to show you how you can do it at a heart level with pure motivations, not just with...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Jan 1, 2015 | beliefs, heart change, holiness, motives, Never Ever Be the Same, obedience
Have you ever wondered why resolutions don’t work? I have a theory. It’s because resolutions most often require more “white-knuckling” it instead of changing the desires motivating the behavior we want to change. Our new book...
