by Kathy Collard Miller | Mar 1, 2015 | heart change, holiness, people pleasing, perfectionism
I confess! I’m a People Pleaser! I’m motivated to please others for a variety of reasons and one main one is thinking I should never say “no.” Why?What will they think of me if I’m not the Super Woman who can say “yes” to everything?If I don’t say “yes,” then I’ll...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Feb 12, 2015 | anger, attitude, heart change, hope, hopelessness, love, people pleasing, sin
Congratulations to Mona who is the winner of the drawing for Deb DeArmond’s book I Choose to Love. Mona, please send me your mailing address: KathyCollardMiller @ gmail DOT com. Maybe you’re like me. I love being offended. Oppsss. Did I...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Jan 16, 2015 | beliefs, book review, demands, Face book, faith, fear, God's love, grace, heart change, people pleasing, sanctification, self-protective sinful strategies
The book authored by Larry and I, Never Ever be the Same: A New You Starts Today, is officially “born” and we are celebrating our latest book birth.I’d like to invite you to the Never Ever Be the Same Facebook Launch Party. Here are the...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Aug 8, 2014 | courage, endurance, fear, fear of man, people pleasing, trials, Trust, truth
I want to defend myself and not be misunderstood. How about you? Can we believe that God wants to protect our reputations—that Jesus “has our back”? Tweet That!I remember many years ago when I was scheduled to speak at a mom’s group at a major...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Feb 26, 2014 | anxiety, blame, fear, forgiveness, people pleasing, perfectionism, regrets, worry
Here’s a second idea for dealing with regrets: “Remember But Forgive.” The key is to forgive. Forgive ourselves and forgive others. No, we may not be able to forget, but we can forgive. Rick Warren writes, “We are products of our past, but we...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Oct 16, 2013 | kindness, listening, love, people pleasing, resolutions, speaking, truth
Congratulations to Nicci who won the copy of Until We All Come Home by Kim de Blecourt. I know you’ll love it, Nicci! I heard recently about an assignment given at a conference. Everyone was told to find someone to partner with whom they didn’t know. Then...
