by Kathy Collard Miller | May 26, 2016 | contentment, grace, marriage, motives, people pleasing, perfectionism, unconditional love
In my last post, I noted some of the differences between men and women (generally speaking) is that women love the process. One of the ways she may “process” is through “dreaming of possibilities.” Here’s an example of a conversation that...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Mar 19, 2016 | beliefs, peace, perfection, perfectionism, position in Christ, purposes, self talk, self-protective sinful strategies
I confess. I still struggle with my thoughts, yet I’m learning more and more to depend upon the truth of Colossians 2:10. It is one of the most meaningful elements of my inheritance in Christ: “In Him you have been made complete.” That word...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Nov 2, 2015 | abuse, attitudes, beliefs, contentment, giving, glory to God, perfection, perfectionism, temptations
We had a great time that weekend but if I’d known there was an unexpected award ribbon at the end, I would have done things differently! The girls’ club that I belonged to as a teenager was lots of fun and our annual weekend in the mountains was...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Oct 26, 2015 | God's heart, God's love, perfection, perfectionism, position in Christ, unconditional love
In my last post, I talked about our inheritance in Christ. For me, Colossians 2:10 is one of the most meaningful elements of my inheritance in Christ: “In Him you have been made complete.” That word “complete” carries with it the idea of being...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Oct 1, 2015 | forgiveness, freedom, hope, knowing and understanding God, perfection, perfectionism, salvation, self-protective sinful strategies, shame, sin, thanks, thanksgiving
At the end of this post, I’ll tell you how someone will receive a birthday gift in a drawing. It’s my spiritual birthday! (Tweet that!) As a child, I believed I needed to perform perfectly in order to earn God’s love and approval, along with the...
by Kathy Collard Miller | Mar 1, 2015 | heart change, holiness, people pleasing, perfectionism
I confess! I’m a People Pleaser! I’m motivated to please others for a variety of reasons and one main one is thinking I should never say “no.” Why?What will they think of me if I’m not the Super Woman who can say “yes” to everything?If I don’t say “yes,” then I’ll...
